Sunday, March 9, 2008

Как дела?

Yesterday morning we received an e-mail from another traveling family that had court this past week. They are adopting three boys (see, we are not the only ones doing this) and have two girls at home. It was a great surprise to wake up too! Their boys are in the same orphanage as "our" (the court says they are not mine until the decree is issued) kids. They took some presents for "our" kids and also took some quick snapshots of them for us. The two youngest look happy, but the expression of the oldest has bothered me a lot. The photos were taken in a rush as the kids were lining up for a special program and a worker pulled them from the line so the photos could be taken. That may explain the expression on her face, but the mom explained to the kids that the photos were for us. I have looked at the new pictures and her expression and compared them with her expression in pictures we took - even from the first photos where she met us. She could be sick or just feeling blue - I just don't know. And, I guess that is what bothers me the most - I don't know. This gnawed at me all day yesterday and I finally had to offer it up to the only one who can do anything - God.

The agency notified us they were sending back one document for us to have fixed. All other documents were sent to Russia. If we get the document back tomorrow, we can have the correction made and send it back all in one day. We may send a card with some short notes that we can write in Russian. Letters are more difficult because I am likely to use the wrong tense of a verb.

Anyway, that is our update. We are praying for a court date sometime in April. Please pray with us!

Before I log off, I guess I should explain the post title to those unfamiliar with the Russian language. "Как дела?" means "How are you?/How are things?"

4 comments:

Annie said...

I am praying for you right now. The "not knowing" is hard. I hope you travel soon!

Sara said...

I found your blog while "blog hopping". We are just beginning our adoption journey. We plan, Lord willing, to adopt two boys from Russia (to add to already 3 children at home). I would LOVE to hear your story - and welcome any advice or thoughts you might have on agencies, regions, children and the process in general. BLESSINGS!!!

Nancy said...

Good thoughts sent your way! God is in contral & knows the perfect timing.

I have taken a couple of sessions (10 weeks each session) of Russian classes. kak dela is a phase I just recently learned. I was so proud that I could read it in Russian!

Blessings,
Nancy

Carey and Norman said...

Glad to hear that you got updated pictures. Are they not the best to receive. I'm sorry that the expression of your older child bothered you. I do think it is that the children are often taken from an activity they enjoy and that they are taken to pose for a picture for some strange, non-Russian speaking people. We got photos for Darla and Peter and one of their boys was scared too. I'm sure it is okay!!

So glad your wait is almost over and you are finalizing the last of your documents!! Congrats.