Thursday, August 13, 2009

New Beginings

Well, I guess it was bound to happen sooner or later - we now have a college freshman on our hands. Our oldest, Jeremy, starts college on Monday. I went with him to orientation on Tuesday. Funny thing, when I went to orientation 28 years ago, parents did not go to orientation. But I went with the only goal being to make sure he did not overload himself like I had. Yes, I was dumb and trusted my advisers who "had my best interest at heart." I laughed out loud when that phrase was repeated on Tuesday only to draw curious looks from others. My fatherly advice - get your feet wet first and only take twelve hours. When it came time to register, the evil parents could not join their children. I reminded him - focus on a math class, an English class, a chemistry class and then anything else to finish it off. He wanted a history class and I told him he could, but to be prepared for a lot of reading. He exited the room and showed me his schedule. Chemistry classes were full, so he signed up for Music Appreciation and US Government Politics. The government class bothered me. I explained that college institutions, even here, are incredibly liberal and that he may be faced with a decision - pretend to agree with the instructor and keep his mouth shut to get a good grade or stand up for his beliefs. Although I think he is ready to stand up for his beliefs, I do not think this is fair to a kid. Besides, asking him not to debate a point he has strong opinions about is impossible.

The younger siblings are doing well. The four youngest have requested new beds. I'm not sure what started this, but I think the thought was they might acquire more bedroom space with different beds. The two youngest got their sisters bunkbeds. Polina got a slightly used daybed from another family and Sarah is wanting a futon. I have tried to talk her out of the futon, but she is set on having one. Fortunately we found one another homeschooling family was wanting to sell.

I feel so unworthy with all that I have been blessed with and I am just blown away by it all. He is taking us down another road right now that is different. While there are many unknowns, His light is shining the way - of that I am certain. God Bless -